One of the terms that you will start to hear during your spiritual awakening is the term “Blueprint.” Before you incarnated onto Earth as a human, you had a blueprint – or map of different experiences you would have, lessons you wanted to learn, and people you would have various relationships with – from parents, siblings, partners, etc. From my perspective, I consider these those significant relationships or significant events that you would have in your life.
Before you awaken spiritually, your perspective could be that you got dealt a shitty hand – a dysfunctional family, a crappy husband/wife, but in actuality – you chose those relationships. And that is the cool thing about waking up – you start to take a step back from your situation and start to view things differently. As an observer, you can look at the dynamic and start to see the lesson to be learned. And that is where you become empowered – you are no longer a victim! And once you are awake and aware – you start to make different choices. Instead of just operating from a place of knee jerk reaction – you start to have compassion and start to choose your reaction from a place of love and understanding.
Before you came here – you met with your Spirit Guides and other souls and made agreements of these key experiences. In most cases, our family members and key personal relationships are with souls that we’ve had many previous lifetimes with – in different relationships. Maybe your daughter was your mother in another lifetime – and now it’s vice versa. Although it can be difficult to always understand and know the lesson that we came to learn, the main thing is to try and always operate from compassion.
Before we go any further, we need to understand that we come to Earth with the veil of amnesia. Most of us are not born psychic and we don’t know ahead of time what we will experience in life. And when we are undergoing any hardship in life – illness, losing our jobs, divorce, depression – even if we are spiritually awake, once we are in a situation – we are not going to be looking at things from a lofty perspective. We will be deep in the experience – which can be very painful. It may take years or we may actually never figure out what the ‘lesson’ we were trying to have during that experience. So the key here is to always be compassionate to ourselves and others during a hard time. That last thing you want to say is “So why did you create that experience for yourself?” Even if you are awake and aware that you created that experience, we need to be mindful that these lessons can be difficult.
So let’s take an extreme example of the lesson of forgiveness. One perspective that I’ve heard about for instance is when someone is murdered. The people involved had a preplanned agreement to experience that interaction for the people involved to learn and experience forgiveness. I know that might sound like a radical example and I by no means wish to diminish anyone’s feelings. My intention is always to share a perspective with compassion.
So other experiences that we may have may help us have a better understanding of:
- Unconditional love
When it comes to relationships, my perspective is that we choose our family – our parents, siblings, children.
A lot of starseeds incarnated into certain ancestral lines to heal and clear those lines. So many of us find ourselves in dysfunctional families.
And there are certain key connections that you will make with people as well. So for me, when I met my Twin Flame – that was because we had a pre-planned agreement to meet at a certain time for him to trigger my Spiritual Awakening. And from my perspective, I had this weird jittery feeling inside when I met him because it was my soul recognizing his soul, however, I didn’t understand the meaning of that until much later.
So that’s one example of a pre-planned interaction of significance. Because once I was triggered to awaken spiritually – that changed the course of my life.
So what do we do with this information? Form my perspective, it helps me to stand back and look at things differently. What was my soul trying to learn? And as I mentioned earlier – we might not ever figure that out – but it allows me to try and look at things from a different angle rather than falling into victimhood.
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